Saturday, October 27, 2007

wedding bells

We had another Asian-first today; we finally got to attend a friend's wedding! This wedding could best be described as east-meets-west. Typically, in this country, the couple throws a big banquet and a certificate is read that makes them "man and wife." (There's not usually a big ceremony.) But, our friends wanted to have a ceremony to let everyone know of the hope that they have, and it was quite a celebration! They had several brothers and sisters who helped them write the marriage vows and marriage charge. The whole wedding was very participative, and I might add, "relaxed." After the couple was married, there were performances, and many family members came to sing and offer blessings to the couple. Then the chairs were cleared and a big banquet was served.

Confetti...lots and lots of confetti! The symbol in the background is the "double happiness" character and is most often used in weddings here.
This group danced to a song called "love one another..."
The two little kids in the front did a great job singing. They knew their stuff!
Grace was so happy that our helper BoLing was there. She had a good time at the wedding, even though she woke up with a fever (again) today. We gave her enough Tylenol to get through but had to leave before the banquet started since she was going downhill fast.

1 comment:

kristen lewis said...

I am not sure why this post made me emotional, but it did. I love how much a part of people's lives you are becoming there. I guess it is still just becoming real to me that this is your home and your life- not just some long trip that you are on. I am so proud of you for living the way that you do! By the way, Grace is cute even when she doesn't feel good.